Thursday, 7 March 2013

Where does the buck stop- blame game in the case of sexual assaults?


“If I don’t get justice, there is no point in living…”
These are the words of a gang rape victim Roopa (the pseudonym) from Haryana.
Soon we will be celebrating International Women’s Day. All over the world there will be some or the other activity or events taking place for the women. People around the world will be praising and giving long speeches on women power, development, women rights, importance of women etc. But do they really mean when they say or comment anything on women? I don’t think that people really care when they comment anything about women. These are the same people who do not even step forward to help the women when they are in danger or faced with any crisis. The whole nation waits for things to happen and then to react, but are never thinking of changing things around so that such incidents never take place.
I mentioned a comment in the start which was said by Roopa, a victim who was gang raped by five men on 28th November 2012. She is a dalit woman from Haryana who is married and has two kids. One night when they were asleep and her husband was at work, these five men came and broke the door. They pulled Roopa out of the house and took her to a cowshed out of the house. They tied her mouth and “then the five of them raped her repeatedly”. She couldn’t shout and saw that two of them even had pistols. When they heard the children crying, these men ran for it. When the family came to know they wholly supported her and went to the police for help. The local police accused her of "making the story up" and delayed in filing the case and it was not until police superintendent Sharma intervened and registered her case.
The whole community has ostracized her and her family. Nobody talks to them and her friends also hated her. Her husband is sitting at home after this incident as he is removed out of the job and nobody is ready to give him work as a result their they have lost their source of income.
Vivek Sharma, police superintendent in the nearby city of Rohtak, said that of the five accused in the gang rape, one is in jail, two have absconded, and two others allegedly jumped in front of a train and killed themselves within hours of being named. It was known that some of them were members of the powerful Jat caste that dominates politics and agriculture in Haryana.
Now the question arise that why were the police hesitant in filing the case? This makes us believe that ‘money is power’ and because of which crimes are increasing every day. In this case Roopa was snatched in the cowshed which makes me think that people who worship cows end up doing such evil practices in her shelter home. But these days cows are also treated the same and therefore we can see many dead cows on the roadside. There is no much difference left in women and animals as both are treated in the same manner.
In the end the women are the target and the cause for all the incidents might be because she is a dalit, backward, illiterate, educated, independent and warm hearted like the cow. But it’s high time now that we actually show the world ‘The Women’s Power’.
But how do we go about doing things, when the system in its whole is corrupted and doomed in money power? Whom do we blame and point out in such situation when all are to be blamed? Money power has overpowered the human values. It is indeed very difficult task to come out of such plight and make all things go in right manner. We still hope to have a safer and better future for women, but it is up to us as to how we make these changes happen…

By Sofia D'costa

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